The more you blame others or circumstances for what is happening in your life, the less likely you will achieve what you want. You will be falling onto your nose time and time again.

If you have had enough of crash landings and are ready to make changes, check this out:

 

If you are blaming others, you live in denial, you justify yourself about things, the way they?re going. You make excuses and you blame others for the way things are. So basically, you play the role of being the victim.

 

For you to get a better understanding on where that behaviour originates from, let me quickly share the following with you and take you back to where we all were still hunters and gatherers. It was actually designed for our survival because it was a response for us to remove ourselves from dangerous physical situations, from physical threat. Whereas back in those days, we only had to deal with physical threat, nowadays a big part of the threat we encounter every day is actually the threat of identity and ego.

 

So in all these responses to threat, the brain actually releases hormones. And the unconscious mind doesn't know the difference between a physical threat and identity threat. In each and every situation, hormones are released and our unconscious mind alerts the brain. It actually hijacks our capacity to think critically and creatively. So, it's actually up to us to choose in which way we want the brain to react. Do we want to react only through the right half or right hemisphere of the brain which is the creative hemisphere? Or do we only react from the logic hemisphere, the left hemisphere?

 

It comes down to us, how we react. If we choose to actually live in balance then we must grant the unconscious mind to draw information from both hemispheres of our brain. And that's how we can choose how to react. So simple, isn?t it? We can choose, do we want to react in a responsible way or do we want to react by blaming everybody and everything else?

 

So, if you are unhappy about your relationship, take action and make the necessary changes. Stop being the victim. Stop blaming your partner. Stop blaming everybody else and everything else.

 

Grow up and own up to yourself. Start looking for the flaws within YOU. That is where you will get the answers.

 

How much longer do you want to stay trapped in your Unhappiness?

 

I can tell you one thing: Life is way too short to do that.

 

Imagine all the fun and the great time you could be having if you finally said to yourself that enough is enough! I am now taking responsibility for my life!

 

So, now the question for you is:

Where do you think you are sitting at the moment?

 

How are you going to approach problems that are arising for you?

 

Are you happy about your circumstances or are there areas that need improvement?

 

If so, it might be a good idea would to brainstorm the situation you are in right now.

 

If you need help in doing so, you can find the answers in my upcoming book 'CHAINS OFF WINGS ON' or you can book a free 60 minute session with me on

 

https://bookme.name/riseaboveandbeyond