Self Love is many different things. A good start to developing Self Love or to resurrect it, is to become aware of your boundaries.
I have said it many times and always come back to it. To really be able to be YOU, it is indispensable that you know where YOU end and where the other person starts. That is your only chance to become authentic. If you are not able to work this out, you are missing the ground rule to fall back in love with yourself again.
Think back to your childhood, when you threw tantrums. There was a very valid reason for you to do so. By acting this way, you made your environment understand that they are invading your space, that they are going too far. And because you were punished repeatedly for throwing tantrums, eventually you gave up which meant you gave in. You allowed the adults to enter your space. There went the first bit of your personal boundaries. And with it a smidgen of your Self Love.
As you can see, you started as early as a toddler handing out YOUR SELF LOVE to others and this means that over a period of a lifetime, you handed out bits of your Self Love over and over again. This made you a machine for handing out your so precious Self Love. You were not even a vending machine. You handed it out for free like an ATM is handing out dollar notes. And because you handed out your so precious Love for Yourself over the years, you then became accustomed to doing so unconsciously. And today, only today, you finally come to the realization that something is seriously wrong and you go on the quest for the 'Something'. And the more you search and the more you learn, the clearer it becomes that a lot of the drama in your current situation is caused by the lack of that magic ingredient: SELF LOVE
If you are on that quest to finding out what is missing in your life, or what could be the reason for things not going your way, I would love to invite you to come on the quest alongside with me. I have been handing out my Self Love in huge portions having been a People Pleaser all my life. I was always there for everybody else, whether it was my children, my husband, our business - you name it. And to be honest, I thought when I stepped out of my marriage, I solved my problems.
Oh boy was I wrong, that was only the initial step of my healing journey. Because today I know that the real healing only started with me looking inward and learning to be me again. One thing I can tell you for sure: The miracle of change does not happen over night. It is a journey, a journey that will get you to peel one layer of the onion after the other. And just when you thought you arrived at the core, there appears another layer and you have to go to work all over again.
Let me ask you this: Would you rather spend the rest of your life in Frustration, Confusion, Self Doubt, Self Blame, Procrastination, Anxiety, lacking Self Trust, Self Love and Self Worth? Or would you rather want to invest some time and money now, to be able to tap into your innate power? Which means that you can, will and undoubtedly must find your true potential which makes you the creator of your own Destiny designed by Empowerment, Reinvention of Self, Freedom, Healing and Self Love!!!
Which one would you rather pick? If you are interested in going on this rewarding journey, then I would love to invite you to get in touch with me. For the first two people messaging me, I am giving away one FREE STRATEGY SESSION worth $ 150 to initiate the self empowering journey of Self Love.
Love always,
Andrea
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